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Banyak diskusi dilakukan atas nama cinta....gue juga jadi tertarik untuk membahasnya. Sebegitu kompleks kah yang namanya cinta sampai sampai Adam rela jatuh ke dunia karena Hawa? Romeo rela menghunjamkan belati di jantungnya demi Juliet? People do all sorts of crazy stuff in the name of love, that's for sure...
Buat gue, cinta adalah satu titik dimana there's no more you or me, just us. Cinta nggak bisa berjalan dimana ada ketimpangan...dimana one just loves or one just get loved. Cinta yang sebenarnya buat gue adalah sharing the feelings...
Have to say, cinta nggak selamanya indah, tapi keindahan cinta bisa kita rasakan even at the worst hours of our lives...being with someone yang kita cintai DAN mencintai kita is like having a top notch anesthesia yang bisa menahan rasa sakit yang kayak gimana pun juga. Cinta is some miracle drug...it's the ultimate drug indeed.
Love hurts, yes i have to agree with that too...coz the person you love the most is in the best position to hurt you. Pada saat hati kita tersakiti oleh dia yang kita cintai, rasanya nggak ada penawar yang lebih ampuh dibandingkan seuntai kata maaf yang tulus, dan reassurance kalau dia yang kita cintai tetap mencintai kita seperti kita mencintainya...
Cinta memang aneh, karena membutuhkan pengorbanan dan pemahaman or is it the other way around? Yes, I guess it is. When you understand love, knows it's there...sacrifices seems to be a lot easier to do. trust me. Coz that's just what love is...to be able to say: I am happy when you are happy.
From my experience, it's not as easy to do that than just to say...
You will need to earn your love, by fights, tears, and getting to know your loved ones...since that's the only way to understand what they are, and how they function, and will they be good enough to earn YOUR love...
Seperti yang gue pernah baca di kartu kartu Hallmark atau Memory Lane...ada wise saying yang bunyinya kayak gini:
" When you love someone, set them free...
if they come back to you, they're yours forever.
When they don't...
maybe they were never yours to begin with..."
bukan berarti kita musti diem aja untuk nunggu cinta itu datang sendiri kan? hehehhe...dudes, some people might say cinta ada dimana mana...iya, sih...tapi apa itu the right kind of love yang kita mau? So, eventually you will AGAIN have to look around for it...tenang aja...kadang kadang the right one is just around the corner, nggak jauh jauh.....you just have to get up and grab it by the hands... ;)
Jadi buat semua temen temenku 'pencinta' di luar sana...keep looking, the right one for us may be doing exactly the same thing we do...trying to find hands to hold!
love you,
ShantzLabels: cinta, love, piece of mind, relationship |
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Name: shantz
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